Thursday, October 25, 2012

Only need 1 second victory!

You stupid little straight out of your mouth? Quick to smile before you speak. According to a recent study published in the Journal of Social Psychology Psikolgi, women are more likely to body language (ie a smile) and not as what they hear (the stupid things you say) leave.
Researchers asked a man to make a comment section, and then study the effects of the smile on the woman in various scenarios. The result: Even if the words are not as appealing when she smiles, women are more likely to be friendly to you than if you blink or just grinned at her.
What is this? Research shows at least 60% of women are better able to read body language than men, says Patti Wood, author of First Impressions, Body Language, and charisma. Women rely more on body language than you. Women also prefer to communicate face to face, so that they focus on facial expression, said Wood.
So remember: - "No." The next time you make a mistake gossip about your boss in front of his Executive Assistant, or say anything other than the word If your girlfriend asks if she looks fat - you better keep your mouth and show your teeth. "Smiling is the most important body language to show friendliness and safety," said Wood.
In fact, if you see a genuine smile - is that if you raise your face, and wrinkles around the eyes - you can automatically see it in a positive light. This is the way your brain is connected.
And while there is no guarantee that frown upside down to solve all your problems, you can measure their own success. Look for the "window open body" to see if he is relaxed, said Wood. Eye contact, open arms, and his heart, hip, knee or foot to you is all the signs that he is open to what you are saying.