Saturday, September 8, 2012

After Disconnect, and then reconnect Want More?

When fights occur, sometimes emotionally overwhelming sense of control. You can make a decision without thinking, because the anger is not unbearable. It's sad, separation, especially if the break when feeling emotional stress make you regret the decision.
You still love him, but do not know how to order it re-knit relationships. We recommend that you follow these steps in order to run properly for their love, without having to follow the education of the same problem:
A. Take time for eachMaybe, and he had gone through a great struggle, overflowed upset and anger and climax. After the break, you should not directly touch for some time. Give yourself time to get to the events that are passed, have reflect good or bad. Use. This time to think about a peaceful heart and a clear mind, if you really want to improve the relationship of love with him or not
Second Check the questionsAsk yourself what is the real reason for the failure of love? Think back to the past to find what caused the problem. After I figure out an answer for them, to do what you. Both love relationship for the better
Third Solve the causesOkay, you've taken the time to think and reflect, then you have also the problem and how to fix it out. It's time you met with him to discuss and offer solutions that will help to solve the problem between you two can. Some changes may be necessary to support a bak again, and everyone needs to be prepared.
4th Get back her heartAfter a discussion on good terms with him, it's time for you to try to win back her heart. Maybe after the tragedy "broke he became disillusioned and less sympathy for you. ... Quiet, it takes up only one process. Be Smart to win her heart by trying to understand his feelings, and think because not rehash back problems in the past.
5th ProveShe had already begun to talk back to him. As much as possible try to avoid conflict, not to get involved with the debate because of other problems for a while because you are greeting reconciliation process. Prove to her that you are really trying to be a better partner for him and for the purpose of harmonious relationships.
6th You do not continue to blameIf you were above the levels, you would seriously want to get back. In a relationship of love with him So, try to listen to his words. That is, not to continue it for something that is not to blame for you. Affair brings together two people who may have a different character. Therefore try to better understand what he wants.
7th Escape the PastTo suspend the period of the past, make it a lesson that you can be a better person for yourself and others. Get to know him more, to make friends. Salinglah relearn the advantages and disadvantages, each of which may be unknown. If you are both more familiar and know what anyone could want in a relationship, the love affair is doing would be more convenient because you and he can work together.
What is your decision whether you reconcile with him?